Let’s Talk Relationships

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Hey World, Its ya girl BeauTaya! Just wanted you guys to know how excited I am to start this new chapter in my life. I chose the topic relationships simply because I felt what else gives you more of the good, the bad, and the ugly than this one topic. Growing up I never really had the privilege to see a loving/working relationship. No, I got to experience the bad and the ugly. I got to personally experience numerous heart breaks. Numerous sleepless nights. I’ve seen people fall out of love after sharing so much history. Not to mention the lies and betrayals. Being alive in this generation makes it damn near impossible to believe “true” love hasn’t died. Is it even safe to say money can’t buy love anymore? A lot of people may not like what I have to say but that’s part of giving the dirty truth.

 Time Out! Let me first give you a little background on myself. I am 28 years old, a single mother of 3 beautiful children, and most importantly a woman who refuses to let these dangerous minds take over mine. I’ve had my share of “relationships.” And I’ve seen what I am capable of. I’ve seen that I have what a man needs. I’m funny, beautiful, smart, loving, caring, supportive, and not to mention real. But I do have flaws just like everybody else. For example, I suck at managing money. And my biggest fear is disappointing my kids. I feel like I’ve spent majority of my life trying to impress my mother whom I never felt really sees ME. But hey, these things plus more made me who I am today.

Growing up we all watched how others portrayed love. Whether it was watching Belle fall in love with the Beast. Or Princess Jasmine accept and fall in love with the street rat Aladdin. But one thing those “fairy tales” didn’t prepare us for was…cheating, mental/physical abuse, lies, con artists, rapists, etc. Basically everything we needed to know…we didn’t. Now you see, falling in love with a beast and turning him into prince charming can either be a blessing or a curse. He’s either going to love you or he’s going to hurt you really bad.  Then you’re either going to go on happily ever after or your world gets turned upside down and you lose your damn mind. You’re simply playing with a deadly fire.

I wanna hear from EVERYONE!!! Tell me your stories. Ask me some questions. In return, I will throw no shade. My answers and responses will be nothing short of pure honesty. Somethings should never go unsaid. The most terrifying thing in the world is the truth. So who’s ready for it??

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  1. Jaron Fields

    June 28, 2018 at 9:28 pm

    What are somethings you’ve learned from past relationships?